Written By Nicky Van der Westhuizen
Purpose Gives You a Reason to Live

Make Peace with the Process

In a world that values quick fixes and instant results, making peace with the process can be one of the most challenging yet rewarding aspects of our spiritual journey. When we make peace with the process, we acknowledge that God’s timing and plans are perfect, even when our circumstances seem uncertain or our progress appears slow.

In life, we often find ourselves overwhelmed by uncertainty, setbacks, and the unpredictable nature of our journey. Whether it’s a season of waiting, growth, or transformation, the process can sometimes feel like an uphill battle. Yet, there is profound peace available when we learn to embrace and trust in the process. The key lies in surrendering our need for control and anchoring our hope in God’s promises.

One of the most powerful scriptures that reminds us to trust in God’s timing is:

“Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.” – Proverbs 3:5-6

This verse encourages us to let go of our anxiety and depend on God’s guidance. When we make peace with the process, we are not resigning to fate; rather, we are trusting that God is working in every moment to shape us for something greater.

It also reminds us that our limited human understanding pales in comparison to God’s infinite wisdom. When we surrender our need for control and acknowledge God’s sovereignty, we begin to see that every step—even the missteps—serves a divine purpose.

Making peace with the process is essential for our spiritual growth, mental well-being, and fulfillment of God’s purpose in our lives.

The Apostle Paul teaches us about the PROCESS of Maturity in Christ

“I pray with great faith for you, because I’m fully convinced that the One who began this gracious work in you will faithfully continue the process of maturing you until the unveiling of our Lord Jesus Christ!” – Philippians 1:6 TPT

God is at work in us, and the process we’re going through is part of His plan to bring His work to completion.

We must put our trust in Him, that He will finish what He started.

Four Practical Keys to Go Through Your Process:

  1. Trust God’s Plan: It is essential to remember that God has a purpose for every trial and triumph in our lives.
    “And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.” – Romans 8:28
    Embrace the belief that every experience, whether joyous or challenging, is part of a divine blueprint for your life.
  2. Surrender Control: The process can be frustrating when we try to micromanage every detail. Instead, let go and trust that God is in control.
    “Be still, and know that I am God.” – Psalm 46:10
    In stillness, we find the space to receive divine guidance and the reassurance that our steps are being directed by a loving Creator.
  3. Embrace Patience: Growth and transformation take time. Just as a seed must undergo a process to become a flourishing tree, so too must we endure periods of waiting.
    “Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance. Let perseverance finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything.” – James 1:2-4
    Embrace patience as a virtue that strengthens you during life’s inevitable delays.
  4. Renew Your Mind through Prayer: Consistent prayer not only aligns us with God’s will but also refreshes our spirit.
    “Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.” – Philippians 4:6-7
    In moments of uncertainty, prayer becomes the channel through which we receive comfort, clarity, and courage to move forward. By speaking with God, we invite His peace into our hearts and minds.

Making Peace with the Process

  • Choosing faith over frustration
  • Trust over turmoil
  • Surrender over struggle

When you let go and allow God to work through every stage of your journey, you open yourself to a peace that transcends understanding—a peace that assures you, no matter the circumstance, you are exactly where you need to be. Trust the process God has for your journey.